By Ryan Frederick Ryan Frederick is passionate about helping men treasure Christ most and love their families well. Please don't show me this again for 90 days. Do as many sessions as you need to feel comfortable — and to find yourself craving more. This has been so needed in my relationship and I am glad we are making steps to address our issues. But what about that other one-third of cases?
Whereas couples over 50 have frequencies ranging from daily to never, surveys peg the most typical frequency for older lovers at two to three times a month.
Tips for Awesome Sex in Your Marriage (part 1)
Scheduled sex dates reassure the higher-desire partner that lovemaking will in fact take place; they reassure the lower-desire partner that it will occur only when scheduled. If you need help negotiating a schedule, or if a chronic desire difference has undermined your relationship to the point where you can't discuss the issue, consult a sex therapist. Do it till you're satisfied. No sex schedule can be carved in stone, of course. The challenge is to find a frequency you both can live with.