Second, not only does the bar example prop up unhelpful stereotypes about men that they always want sexbecause biology and testosterone and grrrit also drives a hammer-blow into the self-esteem of any woman who has been turned down for a casual shag. Yet others have suggested that it's more about risk aversion: So I thought it would be a good time to look at one of the oldest assumptions in the Men vs Women book: Psychology Gender Science and scepticism Relationships blogposts. Would you go to bed with me tonight?
I find you to be attractive.
Can women get sex whenever they like?
But that's not particularly surprising. The fact that we all differ in preferences is obvious if you've watched any porn, read a book, or seen any human interaction ever. Inat Florida State University, students directed by Clark a social psychology professorapproached people of the opposite sex at random and all asked the same question:. Show 25 25 50 All. This tells us nothing about levels of female sexual desire, or whether we are indeed in a privileged position when it comes to sex. Threads collapsed expanded unthreaded. In fact, any attempt to draw conclusions about female sexual need based on a sexual offer defined by male fantasy is as good an example of male privilege as anything else.